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Work Hard, but Pray for Luck

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Posted on Jan 8, 2009

By Ellen Goodman

    There was a time when any woman who attributed her success to luck risked getting ticketed by the feminist police. To say that your crowning achievement was a matter of good fortune rather than your own smarts, ambition and hard work was as politically incorrect as a blush.

    Women had, after all, been forced to follow a cultural script that said femininity and ambition were contradictions. They learned to demur. Most men, on the other hand, followed the cultural script that attributed greatness to their own brains and effort. They were self-made.

    Well, despite a serving of tickets, I never discounted luck. Looking at my own life and those around me, I saw a combination of factors that smacked of chance. Not the kind of luck where you plunk down a dollar at the lottery, but the kind you tip your hat to.

    If anything, the standard male narrative about flying solo to the top, bootstraps in hand, energized only by your own talents, always seemed a bit cockeyed to me. The female narrative was not so much self-effacing as it was realistic.

    Thoughts about success have come creeping back into the conversation since Malcolm Gladwell got a hold on the top of the best-seller list with his book “Outliers,” more aptly subtitled “The Story of Success.” Gladwell is the anti-Horatio Alger. “It is not the brightest who succeed. ... Nor is success simply the sum of the decisions and efforts we make on our own behalf,” he writes. “It is, rather, a gift. Outliers are those who have been given opportunities—and who have had the strength and presence of mind to seize them.”

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    On his chart of “opportunities” there are, for example, the Canadian junior hockey stars born disproportionately in the early months of the year, when the age cutoff date gives them a better shot at getting coaching. There is the computer bought for Bill Gates’ high school long before other schools had such equipment. There is also the cultural luck of the draw: the language that gives Chinese students a leg up on math and the “rice paddy” economy that imbues them with a certain work ethic.

    Even the “10,000-hour rule,” the number of hours it takes to achieve mastery, is not just a matter of willpower but of opportunity. So the Beatles got their training in long hours at Hamburg nightclubs. And conversely, children in our poorest schools are disadvantaged less by the schools than by summer vacations.

    This is the perfect moment for Gladwell’s success story. In good times, we look up to heroic CEOs and masters of the financial universe as if their surfboards were making the waves they rode. Suddenly there’s an undertow and we’re more likely to see the shared currents such as family, culture and timing.

    Still, there are missing elements among the provocative ideas that Gladwell draws together. In homage to the feminist police, I couldn’t help noticing that there are virtually no women among his “Outliers.” And those who do appear are almost exclusively moms. It’s as if women were a separate culture.

    In the same sense, this exploration of success casually neglects the great social changes that altered opportunities. Anti-Semitism, for example, crops up oddly as an advantage to the Jewish lawyers banned from white-shoe firms who (therefore?) became experts at corporate takeover law. There’s no mention that the “rice paddy” culture that produces successful mathematicians today produced “coolie labor” for railroad builders of the 19th century.

    And what of the heirs and heiresses of the civil rights and women’s rights movements who were “lucky” to be born in that culture of empowerment? Those movements are oddly absent from a populist call for replacing the “patchwork of lucky breaks and arbitrary advantages” with “a society that provides opportunities for all.”

    There has always been this paradox at the heart of our national idea. Americans do believe that individuals are agents of their own destiny. Sometimes to a fault. But we also believe in creating a level playing field to enable that destiny. This duality is as much a part of the American environment as the rice paddy economy is of the Chinese.

    At the heart of our culture is something else very much back in the air during this rocky, troubling, optimistic, transitional time. It’s a bedrock belief in the possibility of change. This is the fundamental creed that defines our country’s own success story: America the Outlier.
   
    Ellen Goodman’s e-mail address is ellengoodman(at)globe.com.
   
    © 2009, Washington Post Writers Group


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By octopus, January 11 at 11:33 am #

And then there are those who marry and divorce for a living. A little historical revisionism later and anything is possible….

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By G.Anderson, January 10 at 3:51 am #

So the question then is why did our leaders throw it all away?

Why then did the so called elite come to have so little judgement, why were they so reckless to spend America’s treasure so foolishly?

How did delusion, come to be the guiding light of our business and political leaders?

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By Joseph, January 9 at 6:53 pm #
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Every man I’ve heard talk about how he did it all by himself and with no help along the way, is a liar.

Those men never count the people who helped him, it wouldn’t sound as John Wayne (whose first name was Marion).

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By DarthMiffy, January 9 at 6:46 am #

Let’s refocus your “women smart, men dumb” comment at bit. I believe Ellen Goodman is saying that “women are smart but in a different, less rewarded culturally way then men, who are also smart, but have the cultural advantage.”
Do you have any problem with that assessment?

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By P. T., January 8 at 10:07 pm #

“clearly you DON’T get it.”


I got it back the zillionth time she said it.

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By Shift, January 8 at 7:09 pm #

Oddly, character flaws are the enablers of success.  Dishonest people who disregard ethics, engage in dishonest behavior in the office and marketplace tend to get ahead at the expense of honest people. Fortunately, with the economic downturn, these same dishonest people suffer the consequences of their actions more directly than do honest people.

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By Harry H. Snyder, January 8 at 5:16 pm #
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The “Feminist” women of today could learn a few things from my Grandmother,
Grandmother left school in the eighth grade to get her own job as she had a father prone to drink (they owned a saloon on Amsterdam Ave.)Before she was married she was a suffragette who marched in Manhattan for a woman’s right to vote,  She met Harry Siebert married him, and with his salesman’s income, she had the family living in a brand new townhouse in Brooklyn’s Bayridge section within ten years.

Lillian Cora Siebert sent her son to Yale, and her daughter to Sweetbriar during a depression and with no thought to “herself breaking any ceilings. During her marriage she was a stay-at-home mon for her children-at-home years. She also took my father into her home when his parents died. He was 16, and somehow, somewhere found the money to send him to College too. Then at the end of her life she became the postmaster in Fayson Lakes New Jersey where she had bought a summer home, After the death of her husband she moved there, giving her home in Brooklyn to her son who had just returned from WWII.

Lillian Siebert never owned a car, didn’t go beyond elementary school with formal education, but she lifted, on her incredibally strong back generations of Snyders and Sieberts.

I’d measure her strength against any man I’ve ever known any they’d all come up short!

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By Hulk2008, January 8 at 3:14 pm #

Kudos to Ellen for her insight into why America has outperformed the Old World.  Unfortunately, the power imbalance continues through the centuries - even here in the US: women, in spite of their greater numbers, still remain underpaid and under-rewarded for their contributions to the world compared to their male counterparts.  At the same time, I cannot help but believe that somehow our mothers and teachers (mostly female) ingrained in us males that script that we have succeeded on personal merit and hard work.  We do feel plucked up because THEY have always told us we were “better” - perhaps a subtle kindly cultural fib.  What if Jesus had been a woman?
  I DO feel lucky too - it is an outright statistical advantage to be born male, US citizen, son of a traditional family unit, of good health, having only one sibling, a midwestern upbringing, parochial school education, and the son of a mother who pushed me to continue being educated throughout my life, and now the spouse of a woman I KNOW is smarter than I am.  What’s the old saying:  “I’d rather be lucky than good.”  Seems apt. 
  But we had all better learn humility as well.  Thanks to all the ladies -  and to Ellen.

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By Sue J, January 8 at 3:13 pm #
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P.T., clearly you DON’T “get it.” One part of what Goodman wrote seems to have hit a nerve with you, rendering you unable to comprehend the actual focus of this piece:

“At the heart of our culture is something else very much back in the air during this rocky, troubling, optimistic, transitional time. It’s a bedrock belief in the possibility of change. This is the fundamental creed that defines our country’s own success story: America the Outlier.”

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By P. T., January 8 at 2:07 pm #

Yeah, we get it Ellen:  women smart, men dumb.

Ellen Goodman should get some kind of award for finding the most ways to say the same thing over and over and over.

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