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Getting EvenPosted on Jun 11, 2008BOSTON—So is the glass half full or half empty? Or to pick a better metaphor, is the “highest, hardest” glass ceiling now half shattered by the 18 million cracks or does it look as impermeable as ever after this unsuccessful battering? This has not been an easy week for ardent Hillary supporters, who are being told to move on and move over to the Obama camp. The woman who looked improbably energetic and strong as she bowed out last Saturday reinforced both the respect and disappointment of her core supporters. Mourning is not too strong a word to describe what I’ve been hearing in the last few days. No sooner had the speech ended than a Hillary fundraiser received an e-mail from the Democratic National Committee asking her to raise money for Obama. She said, tersely, they didn’t even wait for the body to cool. The next day, with Hillary waving goodbye on The New York Times’ Page 1, there was an article on Michelle Obama’s clothes in the Styles section. Back to the first lady beat, sighed a reader. “Women have had the idea of her being president in their heads for a decade or more. So the level of disappointment, anger, discouragement is that much stronger,” said Marie Wilson of the White House Project. As Dianne Feinstein said, “the nerve endings have to be healed.” Well, fair enough. But in the early stage of the mourning process, those supporters who have been dismissively pegged as Angry White Women should take another adage from politics: Don’t Get Mad, Get Even. This is not a revenge fantasy, especially not against Obama. I cannot imagine the core of Hillary’s female supporters turning to McCain, a man who voted against equal pay, let alone abortion rights. So I’m not talking about payback; I’m talking about pay-it-forward. I mean “get even” in a very different sense: Even the playing field, even the odds. Get Even in the Media. Every Hillary supporter I talk to heatedly brings up the media. Women who have never let the word “misogyny” slip from their lips now pair it alliteratively with media. I will spare you the reprise of Great Sexist Hits of 2008. If you have five minutes, go to the Web site of the Women’s Media Center and be aware that this is just a Whitman’s Sampler. It wasn’t just the ugly stuff coming out from under the rocks: “Life’s a B----, Don’t Elect One.” Nor was it just the sleazy shout-outs of the new boys’ blogosphere. What shocked even the slur-hardened feminists was that, as Ellen Malcolm of Emily’s List said, “it seemed to be so acceptable. And it was shameful.” Where was the DNC’s voice of protest? Where were the big feet and CEOs of the media? Why do sexist slurs get a laugh while racist slurs end careers? Getting even is, finally, shaming the media messengers. Get Even in Politics. First lady Hillary Clinton made the water safe for “uppity” wives like Elizabeth Edwards and Michelle Obama. She may well make it easier for the next woman running for the West Wing. But how different would this race have been if there were three women in the mix? Women of varied opinions and backgrounds? Women are still lagging behind in the profession of politics, and are reticent to run. For all those mourners who fear there won’t be a woman in the White House in their lifetime, getting even is building—sports metaphors be damned—the farm team. Get Even as Voters. Until now, Democrats have taken our votes for granted. Where else would progressive women go? Democratic leaders have often seen these women as a one-issue, pro-choice group. It’s not enough. I’m not saying that Hillary’s world will be appeased by offering her the vice presidency. To some this would be a proper reward, but others would see it as only a consolation prize. More important, Obama needs to talk directly to women in this fragile, slip-sliding, backsliding economy. Getting even requires winning respect. “It would break my heart,” said Hillary Clinton, “if, in falling short of my goal, I in any way discouraged any of you from pursuing yours.” Well, I’ll hold the half-full cup lightly in my hand. But let’s remember how good women are supposed to be at multi-tasking. It’s not so hard to root for Obama and work on leveling the field for the next women.
Getting “even” is the best revenge.
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By Matt Erickson, June 16 at 8:24 pm #
Kath,
Thank you for your honest answers to my questions. I did find out a few things about sex offender recidivism from the research it prompted:
**Both child molesters and rapists are re-convicted of new sex offenses between 13-19% of the time. Their overall recidivism (including non-sex offenses) lies between 35 and 45%. This may include parole violations, which are particularly stringent for sex offenders (living too close to a school, playground, ice cream shop, etc.).
**While sex offenders are more likely to commit a new sex crime, ‘most’ do not - and overall, sex offenders are less likely than other offenders to be re-convicted.
**As you said, Kath, these numbers may be skewed due to unreported abuse cases.
**The only category of sex offender to re-offend more likely than not are exhibitionists.
**83% of all sex offenses are committed against females. This number increases even more sharply when the victim is an adult. Child molestation is a little more evenly balanced between boys and girls. These numbers probably do not count men in prison who are raped.
**The majority (2/3, if I remember correct) of child sex offenses were not rape but ‘fondling.’ And over 90% of such cases were ‘family friends,’ not strangers as others (and myself) may have imagined.
**The longer the offender stayed in prison, the more likely they were to re-offend. Voting for long sentences looks good politically—pragmatically, it has been foolish.
No one wants to defend sex offenders—they are, perhaps, the last and toughest frontier of ‘tolerance.’ But I used to work in corrections and found the ‘sex offender’ label a little too simplistic—there was too much variance within that population itself. I hope everyone out there can take a minute, do their own research for a slightly more nuanced analysis, and please ignore the myths generated by Dateline-style witchhunts.
Also, props to Obama for seeing through any tough-on-gangs legislation. Just like NY’s Rockefeller drug laws and crack vs. cocaine sentencing, it is barely veiled racism.
Report thisBy Rockytonker, June 16 at 7:30 pm #
Kath,
I would prefer “Rocky” rather than “Honky.” I appreciate your willingness to admit error. (I’ve never encountered a conservative who could do that; it seems to be a trait of liberals and progressives.)
Sex crimes aim to demean the victim, but the victim is not always female. Rape is underreported, but especially rape of men. It is a topic we could spend much time ciscussing. But there are conflicting studies on repeat offenders. Must depend on the particular population studied; I remember reading that age makes men less likely to reoffend. Choose the study that supports your argument, I guess. I wish there would be serious effort to understand the causes, whether it is due to physical brain structure or social environment, so we could recognize likely offenders and intervene before anyone gets hurt.
Mostly, I want to see the adrenalin level subside so that we can have civil discussion of sexism and racism. Race and gender should be nonissues in political campaigns, work and the rest of life.
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 16 at 4:53 pm #
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Matt,
Obama supports rehabilitation for young, NON-VIOLENT gang members, and he does not support tougher penalties for gang-related crimes as opposed to other crimes.
That’s all it is. i didn’t do the proper research. I just took a Chicagoan i met on the net at her word. It was very stupid of me.
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 16 at 1:49 pm #
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Matt Erikson:
‘TalkLeft: the politics of crime’ has some useful info, credit to the blogger Jeralyn.
No he didn’t vote specifically for early parole for sex offenders as far as i can see. I’m starting to think it is a racial misinterpretation: he refused to vote to toughen penalties for gang-related violence, (which often includes gang-rape). He said something about causing a disparity in sentencing for gang members (who are likely to be African-American or Hispanic) and other violent offenders.
Perhaps this rumour has soemthing to do with his support for rehabilitation of young gang members in Chicago in lieu of jail time. Some of those kids would’ve been involved in gang-rape.
i have posted about this once elsewhere, i will retract and reword my concerns.
Thanks, Matt.
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 16 at 1:32 pm #
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i understand it was in the Chicago legislature. Shouldn’t that be on the internet? I got it from a friend who should know. Perhaps she is mistaken.
And yes, sex crimes statistically have a high rate of recidivism. If you can’t find that on the net, i can’t help you. It is something i learnt in law school and criminology many years ago. i doubt the nature of the crime has changed. It reflects an attitude towards women that objectifies and dehumanizes the victim (or diminishes her enough in relation to himself) so the perpetrator can do whatever he wants. Serial killers do the same thing to their victims, as do porn films, and wife-bashers/killers. This attitude usually doesn’t change even with intensive counselling. So they do it again. Bear in mind the statistics are on the light side because a lot of women are ashamed to report a rape. You would be too, if you’ve ever seen a rape trial, or media treatments/public opinion on some rape victims who aren’t lily-white.
If i have been inadvertantly slandering Obama, i apologize. Please post here again if you can confirm or deny for the benefit of future readers.
Honky,
you don’t have to worry so much about Democratic women voting for McCain. It is the men who admire him as a POW that will vote for him, not the women who know they will be disenfranchised by him. Collectively, we waste so much time bashing women when the worst problems lie elsewhere.
If HRC becomes the useless VEEP, a lot of people will blame her for any mistakes Obama makes. That’s just the way we are, unfortunately.
Report thisBy Matt Erickson, June 16 at 8:39 am #
To Kath:
Can you direct me to a reliable source that says
a) Obama voted for early parole for sex offenders and
b) “statistically speaking [sex offenders] get out of jail and do it again and go back to jail then get out of jail and do it again”
perhaps I am not Googling the correct terms. I keep getting reckless comments on conservative blogs.
Report thisBy Rockytonker, June 16 at 7:58 am #
To Kath,
If my name is important, it is Rich Peterson. The temper tantrum I was thinking of was Heather Christian’s, and I have no way of knowing whether you are calmly being rude to me. I have known people who were terrorized by a spouse although they never were injured; it is possible to frighten by threat alone.
Obama voted against SB485 in 1999. The act authorized early release for good behavior for some prisoners in county jails, with exceptions for violent criminals including sex offenders. I haven’t found yet the reason for his vote, but he may have been rejecting any early release. He cosponsored Dru’s Law in the US Senate, establishing a nationwide database of sex offenders. I doubt that he is indifferent to women’s concerns.
I stand by my statement of the use of absolute terminology. I do NOT regard ALL women as child-adults. I certainly don’t consider all men to be mature. It usually takes about 40 years to make a man; some mature earlier, some never do.
My online “handle” Rockytonk refers to the style of music I play. Word games on a person’s name is another practice I associate with immaturity, and expect out of the conservative side. Obama sounds like Osama, etc.
Apparently you regard thoughtful, logical and factbased writing to be P-A-T-R-O-N-I-Z-A-T-I-O-N. Sad. Very sad. Good day, Kath.
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 15 at 11:57 pm #
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‘If the threat of voting for McCain is an attempt to get Obamas attention, it is probably unnecessary.’
Honkybonk, if it wasn’t necessary they wouldn’t be doing it. It’s not called terrorism, it’s called activism. At least it is when it doesn’t pertain to feminism. They aren’t threatening to blow Obama up.
My use of an ‘absolute term’ made perfect sense in context. Why don’t you read that paragraph again? Or are you being disingenuous? If so, please don’t comment on my posts, because you just waste my time.
Obama voted for early parole for sex offenders. Most of whom, statistically speaking, get out of jail and do it again and go back to jail then get out of jail and do it again. Hell, they are providing a public service, right?
Did O do this because he is uninformed/ignorant of the very real consequences (for women, mostly young women) of such a vote? He has two young daughters. What’s his excuse?
Report thisBy Matt Erickson, June 15 at 8:43 pm #
I find it funny Ellen Goodman is accusing ‘the media’ of sexism.
Is she not part of ‘the media’?
How about Geraldine Ferraro when she went on a sympathetic Fox News, accusing Obama of sexism?
Yes, the sexism is there. But that is not why Hillary lost.
Please remember that ‘the media’ essentially gave Hillary front-runner status through all of 2007 just because she was the most well-known candidate. And she was the most well-known because she was First Lady—hardly a triumph for feminism.
Hillary gave her campaign a feminine identity at least as much as the media did. In the end, the numbers should have worked in her favor:
Obama won the black vote overwhelmingly, but blacks are only 12% of the population. Hillary openly pandered to two majority demographics: women (51%) and whi-- I mean, er, “hardworking Americans” (the US is 70% white and 15% hispanic)—and still lost.
So go ahead, blame the media, blame Obama, blame black people or Chris Matthews or whatever. Hillary got personal attacks, yes, and got smeared both fairly and unfairly—just like every other serious presidential candidate. She also dished them out at least as good as she got them.
In that sense, we saw some real gender equality.
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 15 at 4:38 pm #
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Honky! Spell it, my love! P-A-T-R-O-N-I-Z-A-T-I-O-N !!
Report thisSee? the widdle girwal taught you somefink!
By kath cantarella, June 15 at 4:33 pm #
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Dear Honkybonk, you characterising my righteous anger at your patronising mode of expression as a temper tantrum is prejudiced and arrogant. It is the attitude under your post that is wrong.
You misunderstand my ‘temper tantrums’. I am perfectly calm, i am just free from social contraints in my choice of words.
Like a bird on a wire,
Like a drunk in a midnight choir,
I have tried in my way
to be free.
i am always in control. Emotion itself isn’t the problem. A lack of emotion is just as bad, sometimes worse, than a lack of control.
I have signed my real name, because i believe in what i am saying. How about you?
Report thisBy Rockytonker, June 14 at 5:46 pm #
“Do you actually think there AREN’T millions of women the world over who have already proven their leadership chops? They have since the beginning of time. But are we all undeveloped child-adults to people like you?”
Are you ALL undeveloped child-adults? Of course not, and there a way too many men who fit that description. And politicians who manipulate those people are extremely dangerous.
One measure of a person’s maturity, or rather the lack of maturity, is the reckless use of absolute terms: all, always, noone, never,etc. OK, so you are just “expressing your feelings.” But I don’t care to put my life nor my country in the hands of a person (of either gender) who seems to be ruled by emotion rather than logic.
If the threat of voting for McCain is an attempt to get Obama’s attention, it is probably unnecessary. It also comes close to political terrorism. If you don’t want to be seen as a child-woman, don’t throw temper tantrums.
Report thisBy Louise Labarre, June 14 at 1:33 pm #
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Ellen Goodman’s comments are liberal feminism, as defined by Allison Jagger, at its worst. Unfortunately, politics is a dirty business. The sour-grapes complaint expressed by Ms. Goodman isn’t so much that our society tolerated misogynistic attacks against Sen. Clinton but that it would not tolerate racist ones against Obama as well. Politics is a form of war, and, as they say, “All’s fair in love and war,” which is to say, of course, that nothing is fair in either love or war, or politics.
Speaking of war, Ms. Goodman says nothing of the fact that Sen. Clinton’s loss of the nomination has less to do with misogynists preventing women from breaking through that elusive political glass ceiling than the public’s repugnance of the failed domestic and foreign policies for which Sen. Clinton and her husband have been, and continue to be, responsible, above all her vote in favor of authorizing military force against Iraq. How many of the women who supported Sen. Clinton’s bid for the Democratic Party’s nomination ever considered what that vote enabled? How many of them grasped that she had access to classified documents that made the administration’s weak case, but she didn’t bother to read them? (That makes her fit to be commander-in-chief?!)
If it’s getting even that Ellen Goodman and other women supporters of Hillary Clinton think they need, I suggest they think of it instead as evening out their awareness of what the Clintons have done to the women and children of Iraq over the past two decades, and the reasons why so many Democrats, including feminists, rejected her. I wonder, for instance, how many of the women who supported Hillary Clinton noticed that Madeleine Albright was her foreign policy adviser, or remembered the part she played in inhumane policies against Iraq. Albright--as the first woman Secretary of State in US history, mind you--happily went along with the economic sanctions against Iraq which was responsible for over a million deaths from starvation, most of them children. Ms. Albright defended the policy, saying, “..the price, we think, is worth it.”
When Sen. Clinton voted in favor of an illegal invasion of Iraq, she continued the same dastardly policies against the women and children of Iraq that her husband and Albright had initiated. Whatever the price might be in civilian human lives, she and others who gave the administration the vote they wanted to invade Iraq apparently thought it would be worth it.
While Hillary Clintons supporters nurse their wounded liberal feminist pride, which is more based on the good they believe that comes from the image of a woman’s breaking a glass ceiling than on helping their less fortunate sisters to rise up from the dank basement, perhaps they’ll peruse the widely available information on the pain and suffering that US--not Iraqi--weapons of mass destruction used by our military since the Gulf War of 1990-91 have caused our soldiers and Iraqi civilians. Where is the outrage among US women for the lies the Department of Defense has been repeating to this day about the negligible harm of Depleted Uranium weapons?
I for one do not mourn that Hillary Clinton was defeated. Women like Madeleine Albright, Sen. Hillary Clinton, Sen. Mary Landrieu, and Condoleezza Rice go to show that war crimes are an equal opportunity industry, and women can be just as skilled at it as men. So, cheer up, women. Defeating Ms. Clinton is a step forward for women’s and children’s human rights throughout the world.
Rather than a prolonged mourning over the Clintons’ loss, we should all count our blessings. Liberal feminists like Ms. Goodman were responsible for electing Louisiana’s first female governor. You might have heard what a disaster that turned out to be. There are competent women who also have impeccable integrity. I don’t mind waiting for her to come along, even if it’s in my daughter’s lifetime and not my own.
Report thisBy What!?!, June 14 at 4:39 am #
“Obama just broke through a much tougher ceiling than Hilary Clinton faced.” Really? We all know prejudice runs deep and long. Black males were granted the right to vote with the 15th Amendment in 1870. Womens Suffrage didn’t happen until 1920, a full 50 years later. ‘Nuff said.
Report thisBy Robert Watson, June 13 at 9:00 pm #
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“Get Even as Voters. Until now, Democrats have taken our votes for granted. Where else would progressive women go? Democratic leaders have often seen these women as a one-issue, pro-choice group. Its not enough.”
Your article is half nonsense. Obama just broke through a much tougher ceiling than Hilary Clinton faced. Since 2000 Clinton has been considered a strong candidate for the presidency. No one took Obama seriously until he started winning.
As for you statement that Democrats take women’s votes for granted, that’s nonsense too. Yes, women vote slightly more for Democrats than the do for Republicans. But it’s a close call and their votes can hardly be taken for granted. It is blacks who overwhelmkng vote Democratic who have a better claim that they are taken for granted.
Of course, being taken for granted has it advantages. That is, it’s better than being written off, which is pretty much what the Democratic Party has done for white men in the last 30 years. The funny thing about this year is, with a white woman and a black man as the two front-runners, for the first time in years the Democrats actually have made some attempts to reach out to white men. If blacks and women didn’t they live to see the day where they would be contenders, I didn’t think I’d live to see the day where the Democrats would reach out to me. An interestng year.
White Guy
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 13 at 4:47 pm #
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‘An attitude of Ill blow the whole thing up if I dont get my way! will show an immaturity that will not convince doubters that women are ready to lead.’
Oh, you mean it hasn’t always convinced people that MEN are ready to lead? That is in-cor-rrrrrect.
Why do those doubters need to be convinced in the first place, ronky? Do you actually think there AREN’T millions of women the world over who have already proven their leadership chops? They have since the beginning of time. But are we all undeveloped child-adults to people like you?
Why don’t you wake up to reality? Do you even know where your own arse is?
FYI, i sincerely doubt any female democrat is going to vote for McCain out of spite, it is just an expression of anger, demanding Obama hear them, when they have felt so ignored and dismissed for too long. (that was the whole attraction of voting for a chick, you know?) But the media’s prolonged exaggerated treatment of that expression is, i’m afraid, sexist.
Like you, i suspect.
Report thisBy Rockytonker, June 13 at 7:05 am #
It’s a shame that so many of Hillary’s supporters blame sexism for her failure to win the nomination. First, it diminishes Obama’s accomplishment, that he ran a better campaign, better organized and able to overcome racism and Rev. Jeremiah Wright. Second, that it obscures Clinton’s own missteps, making the loss a loss for all women rather than for just one. That is one of the dangers of Identity Politics.
An attitude of “I’ll blow the whole thing up if I don’t get my way!” will show an immaturity that will not convince doubters that women are ready to lead.
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 12 at 4:45 pm #
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i wanted to return to a point Ellen brought up briefly above: the pro-choice issue. If one candidate is pro-choice and the other is anti-choice, that effectively neutralizes the most powerful voting block in the country, as there is no other factor that would be more crippling to the rights and progress of women than if they should lose abortion rights. Most rational women cannot vote for an anti-choice candidate without knowing that they are destroying their own status as human beings in society, so if there is only one pro-choice candidate, women can be safely ignored on wider issues. If both candidates were pro-choice, women’s issues would come into play.
Report thisThis, of course, is probably why the issue has been stoked back into prominence in recent years. Doesn’t that just make your gorge rise?
By What!?!, June 12 at 11:35 am #
The media was way over the top with misogynist comments, as we all know too well. I can no longer watch Chris Matthews or Tim Russert. The DNC never raised a voice against it, true. They also pulled their own maneuvers and ruled that election results in Michigan can be halved and changed after the fact. The DNC has told Michigan they will set aside election results it does not like. Cast your vote, it counts (if the DNC likes the result). Now that Hillary is out Im waiting for the DNC to allow Florida and Michigan back in at full votes as a good faith gesture now that it wont mean a difference to the outcome. I dont plan to watch either convention; I have no need to experience the big tent unity fest.
Just after Hillarys speech I received an email from Jim Dean (Howards brother) asking that we all take a unity pledge. No thanks. As a life long democrat Im not feeling that forgiving. I will vote for Obama in November but my enthusiasm to participate (and send money) is gone. My daughter is making and passing out Obama buttons at high school where he has rock star status. We watched Hillarys speech on CSPAN to avoid the medias over analysis. I pointed out Gloria Steinum to her and she asked me if shes a psychic lady on TV. I still have work to do after all.
Report thisBy kath cantarella, June 11 at 9:02 pm #
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that Obama, the alpha male, will lose to McCain, the even more alpha male. Whereas HRC, if her people had gotten behind her, would’ve creamed him. Even if, as Carter says, the Clinton-haters came out in force. Women who’ve never voted before may have come out in equal or greater numbers. (It’s like playing chess, right? You have to plot ahead.)
Report this‘What are we going to do about the bitch?’ Well, Repubs, congrats.
With everyone’s favourite female dartboard out of the picture, Obama may soon fall under the wheels of the conservative media hate machine. But, despite what i have said in other posts, i wish Barack and Michelle luck. They are not so much hope and change as they are the last line of defence.
McCain is just going to grow in popularity, methinks. Because that is what a war-loving patriarchy does: it worhips the warrior (and butchers him) with pomp and ceremony.
The other day i was dismayed to hear an intelligent, vastly-educated theologian say that if the concept of equality was not based on equality in the eyes of God, HE DIDN’T KNOW WHAT IT WAS BASED ON!!! Is there a more succinct illustration of the normalisation of abuse of power in our society? That this brilliant man could not see that any seemingly natural hierarchy is based on the abuse of power? That the people who have power over others use it to claim more than their fair share, is seen as normal instead of a kind of social sickness?
Does such a society deserve peace? Do any of us, as individuals with such unconscious unjust attitudes towards each other, deserve peace?
Peace isn’t earned by blood-letting, it is earned only by conspicuous fairness. Love, in other words.
By ib hernandez, June 11 at 3:45 pm #
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Thank you Ellen well said. I am taking a very hard look at Mr. Obama’s scant record and words, and I am afraid to say he falls very short.
The latest the comments made at AIPAC and the promises he has made. This man has gone farther than Bush when it comes to Jerusalem.
It appears to be business as usual. This I will not forget come November.
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