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What Obama Should Say to WomenPosted on May 28, 2008Somewhere in the waning hours of this interminable primary, I found myself channeling Barack Obama as he began a long overdue and eagerly anticipated conversation ... on gender. “Tonight, I want to talk directly with the women of America. “First, let me repeat what I said in Iowa about my deep respect for Sen. Clinton. She has indeed ‘shattered myths and broken barriers and changed the America in which my daughters and yours will come of age.’ There is no one in this country who better understands Sen. Clinton’s tenacity, resilience and commitment to public service than I. “So I want to thank the millions of women who voted for me without ever believing they were betraying the dream of full opportunity for women. But I also want to recognize those millions of women who voted for Hillary Clinton—women who invested their passionate hope to break the glass ceiling, to complete a symbolic journey to equality. “In any hard-fought campaign, disappointments are real and there are lingering wounds. But I know those women didn’t just support Sen. Clinton because they share her gender. They believed that she shares their life experience, and understands their needs. They believe that she hears them. “Well, I stand before you today as the son of a woman who traveled the astonishing arc of an entire generation. The American dream transformed this young mother into an accomplished international worker with deep ties to her own children and profound empathy for the poor families of the world. My mother knew that women’s rights were human rights. “I also stand before you as a partner in a two-worker marriage. Michelle and I have lived the struggles of balancing work and family, paying for child care and the mortgage, finding time for our jobs and our children. We too, even now, juggle our own ambitions and our family time. “I stand beside you as well, as a father, fully invested in my daughters. I share a commitment that their lives will not be limited by an unfinished revolution. “And so I, too, hear you. “I hear the older women of American who, like Lilly Ledbetter, worked a lifetime without getting equal pay for equal work. Women who went into retirement with unequal pensions. I say enough of that. “I hear women who spent decades taking care of others to find that this work diminished their security and opportunities. I hear women who work for modest wages and spend evenings with their husbands—or without any husband—trying to decide whether to pay for health insurance or keep the car running. I say we can do better than that. “I hear the mothers who look at their growing children and wonder if they will have to fight in Iraq. They want to know how to keep those children protected. They want someone who has the strength to combat terrorism but also the strength to avoid the next military misadventure. I say there is a different path. “I know that poverty most often wears a female face. I hear women of all races speak the same language when they worry about educating their children, or a media culture that undermines their own values. I say we can stand together. “But I don’t just hear you. I will promise you. I will promise that in an Obama administration, helping to bail out families will be more important than bailing out Bear Stearns. Child care will be not be an afterthought, but as basic as school. Family medical leave will be, at long last, expanded to every worker. “An Obama administration will trust American women to make their own moral and medical decisions about childbearing. We will not say that the government knows best. An Obama administration will restore our belief in government as an aid, not a hindrance. And we will have women as decision-makers at every table, at every level. “I don’t make these promises because they fit on the platter of ‘women’s issues.’ This I know, from the dreams of my mother and the dreams for my daughters: Most men share these concerns. And I am one of them. “There’s a long way between now and November and I need your help. You want a president who hears you and shares your hopes. I will be that president. I will be your president. “Thank you for listening.” Previous item: Israel's Self-Destruction as a Jewish State Next item: Close but No Health Care Elsewhere: . CommentsAre you a Truthdig member yet? Login now, or register with Truthdig. Add Your Comment
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By PennyPenny, June 6, 2008 at 3:50 pm #
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Please, Ellen, give me a break! I’m willing to bet Obama didn’t have to beg this hard to win Michelle. I don’t demand this much stroking from guys seeking to bed me. I don’t think this outrageous level male affirmation of my womanhood is even necessary, not just to get my vote, at any rate.
Come on! This speech is way over the top, especially for a guy who isn’t that offensively sexist to begin with! No one was nearly this concerned with sexism when Bill Clinton was banging everything that moved in the 90s. But, now, just because Hillary is upset that the boys are getting more votes from girls than she is, Obama gets to wear the scarlet sexist label? That’s insane, Ellen.
A she-vote for Obama is not a blast against Hillary or the fake-feminism for which she now stands. Since Hillary is the one screaming bloody sexism, why not insist she deliver this silly load of femme fatale crap?
Report thisBy cyrena, June 2, 2008 at 7:46 pm #
Obamas racism address came about because someone affiliated with him (though mostly in the minds of the press) - the good Rev. Wright - was accused of making racist comments, sparking a racism discussion.
This is so very, very, sad, because you miss the historical importance of that speech entirely.
Obama made the speech for one reason, and one reason only, and he took a big no HUGE political risk in doing it. He made the speech because after a couple of Centuries, SOMEBODY NEEDED TO!!
The last time this was adequately addressed was in the 60s when MLK and a whole bunch of other Americans of ALL races, put it in the public face of America. Since then, much cosmetic improvement has occurred, specifically in terms of the laws. That was a huge important thing. But morality and tolerance and all the rest of the attached, CANNOT BE LEGISLATED!! Just making it illegal to practice discrimination doesnt erase the racism that perpetrates it on the individual level.
And NOBODY EVER TALKS ABOUT THAT!!
So, Obama did. He did it because he knew that it would only become worse, if left unchecked and unacknowledged out in the open-! He did what my grandma would have called nipping it in the bud. He stopped what was working up to be a flippin LYNCH mob, of proportions weve not seen in a long time.
OBVIOUSLY based on the feedback (including the votes in this primary election since) the majority of the American public appreciated that speech in the spirit in which it was provided.
As for logic here the bottom line is that sexism (at least to the extent that is does still exist) doesnt even come CLOSE to being as pervasive and underlying a cancer in this society as racism is and continues to be. Not in the past, and definitely NOT NOW! HILLRAYS campaign, (and obviously with clear direction from her) has played this sexism card to the point of exhaustion. I dont know how much more obvious it could be, even if you only read 2% of the comments on these threads FROM WOMEN!
We are so thoroughly disgusted with Hillary whipping up this sexism thing, that it might very well have cost her the nomination. That and the fact that she so poorly managed her campaign, by presuming that she would become the official nominee as of Super Tuesday. THAT arrogance, kept her from planning a campaign beyond Feb. 5, and now its June 2nd, and shes got $20 million dollars worth of debt to fix.
The only sexism that has taken place in this campaign is what Hillary CREATED, and it BACKFIRED! She came in 3rd in the first contest in Iowa, and shes been hollering sexism ever since Super Tuesday! Instead of respecting the American public to have a right to vote for the best candidate, or the CANDIDATE THAT THEY WANTED, she just accused us all of sexism, and her supporters HAVENT HELPED, since they started whining even before she did.
It was her nomination to WIN OR LOSE, just like it was EVERY OTHER CANDIDATES nomination to win or lose. The rest of them bowed out gracefully, without hollering sexism or any other EXCUSES! Hillary immediately started hollering sexism, and has used it to beat up on not just the other contenders, but ALL THE REST OF US AS WELL! How stupid does one have to be, to consistently INSULT the population that you expect to elect you? How STUPID does a hungry person need to be, to BITE the hand that feeds them?
Pretty fucking stupid!
Report thisBy Rockytonker, June 2, 2008 at 5:50 pm #
First let me point out that the statement that the party does not need Hispanics to win was not made by the candidate. It is not the sort of thing Sen. Obama, who earned the trust of Hispanics while working as a community organizer/activist in Chicago, would say. His message is unity through diversity, not divisiveness.
So vote against Donna Brazile, if you can.
Second, I hope you will vote according to YOUR needs, rather than the words of just one person that the party doesn’t need you. And Americans, regardless of ethnicity, do not need an extension of George W. Bush’s disastrous policies. We do not need four more years of an unnecessary war, four more years of fighting that war on borrowed money driving down the value of the dollar, four more years of inflation, environmental damage and general cluelessness, four more years of divisive politics rather than a UNITED States of America.
Report thisBy hernandez, June 2, 2008 at 4:16 pm #
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One of his most vocal and loyal supporter Donna Brazile- made the comment on CNN - that the party did not need Hispanics to win. So be it
For that matter this Hispanic or Latina, whatever you choose to define me as - I personally define myself as an American - will not support him NO matter what he now says.
Report thisBy Rockytonker, June 2, 2008 at 2:23 pm #
Please educate me. Detail the “errors of logic and fact.”
Yes, I get begging letters from Obama, too. As you point out, he will be the nominee, and donations will aid the general election campaign. That does not disprove my contention that HRC is continuing her efforts in order to recoup the large loans she made to her campaign.
As you point out, Obama has impressive rhetorical skill and conciliatory “new-politics chops.” Since he has experienced racial prejudice, he is in the position to repudiate bigotry from both sides, and did so. I don’t think he has been discriminated against because of his gender, unless you feel that is the reason women support Hillary.
There certainly is gender bias in our culture, and it is a factor in this race. Therefor I believe Hillary is the person best qualified to address the matter. She certainly has rhetorical skill. Is she lacking in the conciliatory area? Is she so committed to the old politics of division, emphasizing our differences for political gain, that she can’t, or won’t, repudiate both bias against women and the attitude of victimhood?
Report thisBy tdbach, June 2, 2008 at 1:33 pm #
You’re kidding, right? Obama may have let sexism do whatever dirty work it was going to do in this culture, and he may have played along with the absurd race-baiting accusations against the Clintons, but he is hardly a sexist, and he has held steady to the transcendent themes that have defined his candidacy from the start.
Please don’t embarrass Hillary defenders with such nonsense, and then call yourself “a hc fan”
Report thisBy tdbach, June 2, 2008 at 1:17 pm #
There are so many errors of logic and fact in this post, it’s hardly worth responding to any of it. But what the heck, I’m in the mood.
Obama’s “racism address” came about because someone affiliated with him (though mostly in the minds of the press) - the good Rev. Wright - was accused of making racist comments, sparking a racism discussion. Obama, rightly I think, saw an opportunity to display his consiliatory, new-politics chops by talking about racism in philosophical, healing terms. It was brilliant politics. Ellen is suggesting that those same chops would be well used on healing the divide with women who think Hillary is a great candidate, with more experience than Obama, but who feel like she’s being pushed aside because she’s a woman. They’re not all saying Obama is doing the sexist thing, but that he’s enjoying the fruits of it. Whether they are right is beside the point; that’s the way they see it. Why not put his manifold rhetorical skills to the task?
As far as Hillary’s compaign mailings…Are you kidding? This is what they ALL do. I get three or four emails a day from Obama, his campaign manager, or Michelle. I get two to three letters a week in my home mail box from Michelle mostly. My wife fears I’m having an affair!
Why can’t Obama supporters like you just shut up and let this campaign run its course. Your guy is going to win. Relax. Why insult his opponent or the people who believe in her? What do you have to gain?
Report thisBy tdbach, June 2, 2008 at 12:59 pm #
Geez, you sound exactly like Justice Thomas. Interesting, coming from a “Libber.”
You really need to get off the meth.
Report thisBy Rockytonker, May 30, 2008 at 2:58 pm #
Obama has delivered a major address on racism and the need to go beyond it. H. Clinton should be the one to deliver an address on sexism, and the need to go beyond it.
While a conservative woman did ask Sen. McCain what had to be done to stop ” the bitch,” no Presidential candidate of either party has made a joke about assassination of Sen. Clinton. It has never been the custom in this country for white people to hold the door open for a black person. So the claims that sexism is the cause of the failure of her campaign sound quite petulant to me.
And, in no way, do I want a crybaby Commander in Chief.
If she had minded her campaign’s finances as carefully as I would want her to watch the nation’s checkbook, she probably would be the nominee. I suspect the only reason she continues the campaign is to con more contributions. I’m on her emailing list, and I get 2 or 3 begging letters every day, usually incorporating some wild misinterpretation of certain primary results or polls.
And then there was the one from Chelsea, late last week, asking for input on “a major decision.” No, not whether to give up.
On the design for the campaign T-shirt.
Report thisBy alicia banks, May 30, 2008 at 9:44 am #
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great fantasy!
bo is a sexist bi-racial man who is ruthlessly playing race and gender all the way to DC
fyi
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By jmndodge, May 30, 2008 at 5:52 am #
As Obama moves forward needs to reach out to include many diverse elements. The poor, the minority, the white male workers, stuck sinking further into a deep rut of rising costs and lower wage security, and women, (not really a minority—about half of the population) but a group with a history of discrimination against them as well as a present reality of many of them not having reached the success of a few of their leaders. Even more important is a reaching out to the middle class, or upper middle class that everyone claims to want to be a part of, and communicate that he understands that business must be profitable, that a healthy economy is built on goods, services, manufacturing and infrastructure designed for a global peace time not built on the weapons of war, and mutually assured terror, of mass destruction if anyone dares to violate American interests.
Obama needs to bring his message of hope to families, that our voices will be heard, that our best interests pursued and our direction changed. Against this message, the voice of McCain, stands like a lonely echo of a dying past. Bring it on, lead us forth, point the way, Go Obama
Report thisBy thefrustratedteacher, May 29, 2008 at 4:46 pm #
The greatest thing about Obama is he makes his own decisions. Ellen, you’re fabulous, but, unnecessary in this context. Obama will win with OR without the “feminist” vote, because identity politics is one of the things he is trying to do without and ween us off. With all the Clinton folks making ridiculous demands though, Obama has quite a task. I wish him luck, and can’t wait for him to take the oath.
Report thisBy i,Q, May 29, 2008 at 2:13 pm #
http://www.gazette.com/articles/burton_35948___arti cle.html/world_stories.html
Just fixing the link…
Report thisBy i,Q, May 29, 2008 at 2:09 pm #
i agree with Nathan Robinson. Hillary&Co;. have used the accusation of sexism as a manipulative political tactic. She bears the responsibility for patching the wounds she has inflicted. Maybe next Ellen can channel Hillary Clinton and compose a speech aimed at reaching out to all of the post-gender men whose integrity she and her supporters have insulted with baseless and sweeping allegations of sexism. What am i saying? A woman apologize to men over a gender-equality issue? How sexist of me.
More importantly (legal issues trump matters of perception), i already posted this elsewhere, but this is a more appropriate place for it.
Anti-Abortion Measure Makes Ballot
by: Haners
Thu May 29, 2008 at 12:01:33 PM MDT
The Secretary of State certified 103,377 signatures on Kristi Burtons Amendment 48 petition. That was well over the 76,000 that she needed to get her amendment on the ballot.
http://www.gazette.com/articles/burton_35948___article .html/world_stories.html
As such, I also need to admit that I was wrong in my speculation that this would not get enough signatures to make the ballot.
This development will ensure that the issue of abortion is well debated in this state, and will be a good measurement as to the underlining political views of the state.
Here is the language of the ballot initiative according to the Gazette article:
PERSONHOOD AMENDMENT
Shall there be an amendment to the Colorado constitution defining the term person to include any human being from the moment of fertilization as person as used in those provisions of the Colorado constitution relating to inalienable rights, equality of justice and due process of law?
This could help drive conservative voter turn out despite an underwhelming enthusiasm for John McCain. Not to mention a whole host of lawsuits by fetuses and a whole new genre of daytime television-commercial lawyers.
More on this issue at the Denver Post:
Report thishttp://www.denverpost.com/ci_9153861
By jatihoon, May 29, 2008 at 12:35 pm #
I love you all, vote for me.
Report thisBy nappyblack, May 29, 2008 at 9:24 am #
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And Thank You, Cyrena!
Report thisBy nappyblack, May 29, 2008 at 9:21 am #
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Thank you. Purple Girl
Report thisBy Nathan Robison, May 29, 2008 at 9:06 am #
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“inciteful” would be more PC as “insightful” - the pun is admirable, though.
Report thisBy Nathan Robison, May 29, 2008 at 9:05 am #
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Ms. Goodman, you’ve indeed ‘channeled’ Senator Obama, and prepared a brilliant, inciteful, and exquisitely politically tuned speech…which he should not give. Hillary should change a few adjectives and deliver this speech in support of Obama on June 3 - erasing five months of ugliness and establishing the Clintons as living Democrats again.
Report thisBy Purple Girl, May 29, 2008 at 4:35 am #
As a ‘LIBBER’ not a vnedatta seeking ‘feminist’ Sen Obama need say nothing to me- he has proven he deserves the Job, He is the best Candidate still standing.
Report thisAnyone who wants Equal Rights acknowledges and credits Anyone who has proven they are the one best fit of the Duties necessary to accomplish ANY task- including and most importantly the Presidency.
To vote for a candidate JUST BECAUSE they are Female, or of a certain Race, or a certain Religious philosphy is STILL FEEDING an ‘ISM’. And doing a monumental diservice to REAL equality for ALL.
What makes Women think they are doing anything other then playing the ‘good Ol’ Boy’ Game when they blindly vote for someone just because they possess a Vagina?They are Validating Sexism, regardless if it is in ‘Reverse’ Same coin just the other side. It outrages me to her Cries of Sexism when special Priviledge is Not being handed to them. What Woman, What Democrat supports ‘Obliterating ’ Any other Country? What woman, what Democrat, feels invoking ‘assassination’ is not Repulsive and vile?
What Woman ,what Democrat WANTS the BAR to Be Lowered? Hillary had an advantage and SHE LOST IT because She couldn’t cut it.Period. Her whining about ‘sexism’ Infurtiates me- who has worked in male dominated fields, had to not only keep up , but exceed- which made my male counterparts RESPECT me for my abilities, thus kneecapping any Sexist attitudes they may have held. In fact they knew they could set the Bar higher for Me as opposed to my fellow male workers- because 1) I Proved I could jump it with ease and 2) it helped motivate the men to keep up. NO Special Priviledges PLEASE. It undermines US ALL!Those of US who actually work in the REal World must prove ourselve everyday with out help from Wmen like Hillary, Nor Organizations like NOW (Oh thanks for th e$0.02 raise over the last 335 yrs Too, and of course Roe v Wade on the 9 count- heckova Job ladies- go back to the kitchen and let US Libbers handle the Real Battles we face Everyday, You’ve done Nothing!)
By cyrena, May 28, 2008 at 11:09 pm #
I already knew this stuff about Obama. It’s not the first time he’s said this. Or the 2nd, or the 3rd.
As for THIS…
“But I know those women didnt just support Sen. Clinton because they share her gender. They believed that she shares their life experience, and understands their needs. They believe that she hears them.”
I don’t know why Obama thinks this, but maybe it’s true. Maybe some women really DO believe that Hillary shares their life experience, and understands their needs, and that she ‘hears them’. I think that’s bullshit, and I’m damn sure Hillary never shared any of MY life experiences, or understood my needs, or that she ever ‘heard’ me. She didn’t appear to ‘hear’ anybody asking that we not send our sons/daughters/spouses/siblings/etc off to war, so she can’t have been listening too hard.
The disparity in pay for females has been on-going for as long as Hillary has been in politics, but I never heard her address it.
Last but not least, I damn sure haven’t been waiting on, or counting on HER to break MY glass ceiling.
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