While NYC has an infection rate of 26%, the overall statistic for the whole country is around 19%, so it’s not much different than the rest of the country. Instead of one of four in NYC, it’s one of five overall.

The truth about herpes is that 90% of those infected don’t even know that they have it so it can’t be a very severe condition in the vast majority of those who have it.

The stigmatized visualization of people with herpes being a walking bio-hazard zone is totally misleading. Most people, obviously, don’t have sores and may only be contagious a few days out of the year and their virus isn’t something floating around in the air, it requires intimate contact. No you’re not going to get it from a toilet seat.

I hate it that it’s tied to HIV like this since the actual risk of getting HIV is very small unless you are in the very highest risk demographics.

If you’ve had sex with more than four people in your life so far, you’ve likely been exposed to genital herpes. Don’t be critical of others if you’ve not had a reliable blood test for it. Oh, and don’t say that you’ve had the standard STD panel and you’re clear, because testing for herpes isn’t part of that testing unless you specifically ask for it.

A few other thoughts..

1.Condoms? Yes, they reduce the risk, about 50% so they help, but aren’t a guarantee.

2.Cold sores are herpes, too, and many cases of genital herpes are actually the type 1 herpes simplex virus instead of type 2. Those cases aren’t covered by this testing being reported so those additional cases need to be added to the 26% statistic.

3. There’s much much more to know about herpes. There are a few good websites, if you can get past the sites that are peddling alternative treatment/cure scams. Google the “original herpes homepage”, for one.