It’s obvious that the reasons behind multiple wives is buried in having a host of wives to choose from to be or perform her “best” attribute. Still goes on today in many countries. I for one feel one wife at a time is more than enough after the many centuries of them believing they are each sitting on the only pot of gold you may withdraw from. Not true.
The best relationships, bar none, are based in true, honest, fulfilling, rewarding, awesome, physical contact.
You will never find a couple, married or not, that satisfy each other totally, without abuse of any kind, that have problems in life that they do not work through and resolve. Over the top sex and orgasms that blow ones minds always over rule stupidity in human beings actions. It’s a calming of the spirit, a connection of every cell that the two of them have into one, a feeling they do not want to ever lose, so they try harder in the other areas of the relationship. It’s just the typical risk reward experiences we all go through such as being burned by the cook top. Once that happens you kinda steer clear of the dam thing next time, correct?
Sex is the most intimate relationship there is outside of your relationship with your God.
Adam and Eve ran around the Garden of Eden for who knows how many years, centuries or millennium like a couple of naked hippies enjoying everything and each other without exception. That is until she screwed the pooch and ate from the forbidden fruit we are told. So much for having a perfect existence?
So God made this for us to enjoy. If that’s the case and it seems to be accurate that God gave us this ability and in the Garden of Eden there were no children, He must have intended it to be a fulfilling experience for Adam and Eve.
Why modern day women don’t enjoy their bodies with their mates, without limits or exceptions, and the same with men and their mates is beyond any common sense answer.
Doc

oral sex is only demeaning if givin because of obligation. for example, i love my husband and i enjoy pleasuring him. he also loves to give me oral pleasure. giving him a blowjob can even be very intimate.  no i do not want to give some random guy felatio. but whats that got to do with the sex act itself? nothing.