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Etheridge Stops Paying State Taxes in Prop. 8 Protest

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Posted on Nov 7, 2008
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If California is going to deny lesbian Melissa Etheridge her full rights as a citizen because of Proposition 8, the musician is happy to return the favor by refusing to add her tax money to the state’s coffers.


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When did it become okay to legislate morality? I try to envision someone reading that legislation “eliminates the right” and then clicking yes. What goes through their mind? Was it the frightening commercial where the little girl comes home and says, “Hi mom, we learned about gays in class today” and then the mother gets that awful worried look and the scary music plays? Do they not know anyone who is gay? If they do, can they look them in the face and say “I believe you do not deserve the same rights as me”? Do they think that their children will never encounter a gay person? Do they think they will never have to explain the 20% of us who are gay and living and working side by side with all the citizens of California?

I got news for them, someday your child is going to come home and ask you what a gay person is. Gay people are born everyday. You will never legislate that away.

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By Deb Della Piana, February 10 at 12:00 pm #
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You know, I’m really tired of people saying that denying gays their rights isn’t the same as what the black people went through. That’s a bunch of bullshit, frankly. Any time rights are denied to any one group of people, it’s the same.

We’ve had our share of physical violence. We had Matthew Shepard beaten and left to die hanging on a fence on the side of the road. We’ve had Alan Schindler beaten to death by his supposed ‘shipmates’ simply because he’s gay.

We ask our gay soldiers to fight and die for this country, but they have to live in the closet to do this because it might make the heterosexual, testosterone-laden men nervous. Guess what? Suck it up. There isn’t a gay person on the planet who wants to force themselves on someone who doesn’t want it. There are plenty around who do. We worry about what will happen to the ‘discipline’ in the military if we allow gays to openly serve, but we don’t worry that rape is at an all-time high in the military. We don’t worry that we’ve lowered our enlistment standards and allow criminals to serve.

It all boils down to a couple of things: Bigotry. It’s a big trade in the military. Hate. It’s a motivator in the military.I cannot imagine why one gay person would want to even serve. I would not volunteer, sorry to say. But if gays want to serve, they should be allowed to serve and die for this country with dignity.

We pay taxes, but we have no protection and any company that wants can fire us simply because of who we are. We’re supposed to be civilized, but I’ve was working with HRC more than a decade ago trying to get ENDA passed. We are told who we can and cannot marry. We are marginalized in so many ways it’s absurd. Don’t kid yourself. Oppression is oppression, and once it’s okay for one group to be oppressed, it’s just a matter of time before others are oppressed.

Instead of comparing notes and tossing barbs, all minorities should be banning together in support of each other to create a new majority.

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By jheric, November 9, 2008 at 9:58 pm #
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If all these homophobic churches want to spend money on the politics of denying Americans their rights under the constitution, then, they should like the rest of us pay taxes. Ouch!  That’s a lot of money! The separation of church and STATE is the basis of this country.  The mormons should take care of their own problems down on the Arizona/Utah strip, where FLSD men marry at will, children of their second or third or? wife.  Hmmmm, I think they just quietly ignore this problem and the teachings of their founder, Joe Smith.  Read ” Under the Veil of Heaven”.  Am I surprised?  Naw!  Just a bunch of hypocrites.

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By hippy pam, November 8, 2008 at 4:26 pm #

I seem to remember learning in school that INCOME TAX was put in to effect to FUND SOME WAR back when this country was very YOUNG…And I seem to remember learning that it was supposed to STOP after the war was over but WAS KEPT GOING BECAUSE OF THE POLITICIANS GREED…...and why should we pay taxes when we have no jobs-health plans-etc..etc..

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By southparker, November 8, 2008 at 1:42 pm #
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Even Cal Thomas said in an article that the heavyhanded approach by the evanglicals to “right” what they perceive as societal dysfunction..ie the attempt to force their beliefs on everyone through legislation and court rulings, is not working.  He recommends leading by example.  I think that’s a start, but the emphasis should be on minding your own business.  Unless it directly affects me, what my neighbor does is his own business.  A same-sex couple next door affects my marriage not a whit.

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By Oceana, November 8, 2008 at 2:58 am #
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How many citizens of Iraq have been killed due to our government declaring an illegal war? 

How much money has the Morman Church contributed toward stopping the massacre in Iraq due to our illegal war? 

How much money has the Morman Church contributed toward saving the Iraq people and its culture from being destroyed?

The Morman Church is worried about the ramifications of two women or two men marrying one another, who love one another; while we are decimating another nation?

How much money has the Morman Church contributed toward homelessness without requiring membership or conversion; but for the good of humanity at large when billions of dollars are spent on an illegal and inhumane war leaving our elderly and vets and regular citizenry homeless?

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By cyrena, November 8, 2008 at 2:12 am #

ITW writes:

•  “It makes my stomach turn to see Prop 8 and similar bills pass.  It just makes me want to vomit.  I’m not gay, I’m just a believer in the fundamental right to privacy and the right to keep government out of our lives unless it has an overwhelming need.  Why do people feel they have the DUTY to tell other people how to live their lives? It’s disgusting to let this happen here in America…..Hopefully, the courts will throw it out as unconstitutional.”

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Me too Inherit. Same thing. This really has given me a serious case of the blues, not because I wanna marry someone of my own gender, because I’m a garden variety heterosexual, and not interested in marrying anybody of the opposite gender either. (at least not anybody I’ve met to date that wasn’t already married to somebody else). Be that as it may, this makes me sick that my fellow Californian’s could so mindlessly pass such legislation.

But, they know not what they do. They aren’t thinking. I realized that when my sister told me that she had voted for it. I was literally MORTIFIED, but tried not to show it. She’s actually an educated and normally logical person, but man oh man, there can be no denying ANY ideology that feels justified in determining what others are or are not entitled to, is a BAD ONE.

However, having already made the bad vote, she wasn’t about hearing anything out, like from a different perspective, and could only defend herself. I honestly wanted to hear more from people who supported this thing, if only because this issue sits right smack dab in the middle of my field. Law and Society, and I really do want to understand how/why this many people could be motivated to eliminate the rights of people they don’t know, and probably never will.

I think it’s a sign of the times…these 8 plus years of authoritarianism where we’ve seen the demolition of Human Rights and Civil Rights by this administration, and the rise of the crazies who have assigned themselves to determine what’s moral and legal for the rest of the society. My sister claims it’s about the ‘meaning’ of marriage, and told me how the dictionary defines it. I told her I couldn’t figure out why this would be important, (the ‘meaning’ of the word marriage) to anybody except her and her husband. (he’s a guy). As long as THEY are on the same page on what marriage ‘means’, then why does she need a law for everybody else? She hung up on me, but that was after I compared her (and the 51% of others supporting this negative law) to a modern day lynch mob.

Anyway, it IS unconstitutional by the way. That’s why I guess I’m in shock that it passed. I never even read the entire language of the thing, because I didn’t need to in order to realize what was at the core of it. It’s BAD LAW. BAD LAW most often originates in Texas. You can’t imagine how ashamed I am to have something like this come out of my native home state. But, I said all of that to say that people just don’t think. That’s the lesser evil of the alternatives. I guess I just don’t wanna believe that this many people actually DID think about what they were doing -eliminating a right to a specific portion of the population- and did it anyway.
So, who next? Will we now ban marriage between disabled persons? Maybe people with a history of cancer in their family trees shouldn’t be allowed to marry each other? How about religion? Maybe we should ban same-religion marriages. My sister says she has no problem with Civil Unions, so the same-religion couples can just do Civil Unions and that’ll have to be good enough. They won’t be allowed to call themselves married. That seems the epitome of the crime, at least based on that one conversation with a supporter. I think I got it narrowed down to the semantics of it all, since Civil Unions are OK, then it must be the ‘married’ word that sets ‘em off.
Go figure. I know…it’s scary as hell.

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By ZachP, November 8, 2008 at 12:57 am #

Too bad we can’t do this in Florida, there’s no income tax.

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By Inherit The Wind, November 7, 2008 at 11:50 pm #

It makes my stomach turn to see Prop 8 and similar bills pass.  It just makes me want to vomit.  I’m not gay, I’m just a believer in the fundamental right to privacy and the right to keep government out of our lives unless it has an overwhelming need.  Why do people feel they have the DUTY to tell other people how to live their lives? It’s disgusting to let this happen here in America.

Hopefully, the courts will throw it out as unconstitutional.

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By 123456, November 7, 2008 at 7:21 pm #

I’m not sure how one can avoid paying state taxes?

They’re in utility bills, as well as buying gas and so on.

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To Steven:

I don’t think you can compare denying gays the right to marry, with what blacks were denied.

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By SouthernYankee, November 7, 2008 at 5:55 pm #
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The funny thing people.  The gays that live in California and own businesses should move and take their money with them. Move to areas that support gays.  I willing to bet than the haters will beg you to come back.  Right now CA is having hard times.  You have the power.  Look at all your businesses.  Another option is to boycott businesses that support this prop 8.  I live in TN put the word out what organizations and businesses supported the prop 8.  I will boycott them and pass the word around.  Also I don’t know how to do it. I am sure there are plenty of lawyers out there that go to church and see the church getting involved in politics.  Its about time they lose the Tax exemptions.  This country isn’t a conservative country as the right would have you believe.  Stand up and be counted.

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By BruSays, November 7, 2008 at 5:13 pm #

Good on her.

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By Mudbones, November 7, 2008 at 2:07 pm #

It’s a shame, I live in Florida and we just passed an ammendment.  Today a Baptist church signage read, “Thanks for voting yes on 2”  Don’t we have bigger issues?  The murder rate here in Jax is sky high, unemployment and so many other problems.  Why single out a group of citizens and take their rights away?  Unreal.

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By P. T., November 7, 2008 at 2:02 pm #

Californians should refuse to pay whatever taxes they can until Arnold Schwarzenegger and the legislature quit increasing the regressive sales tax—instead of the progressive income tax—to raise revenue.  Schwarzenegger always tries to get money from the people on the bottom, not the top.

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By Herk, November 7, 2008 at 1:58 pm #

Seems fair: if the government begins discriminating against a particular group, then it would be reasonable to assume that members of the group would cease support of the state.

I suppose that it becomes a can of worms that would never again be repacked.

But 20%? That’s a much higher figure than I’m used to hearing. is the per capita count of gays/lesbians in CA twice what it is everywhere else?

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By Steven, November 7, 2008 at 10:38 am #
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It’s despicable.  The same hateful rhetoric used to describe black people is being used now to describe gays.  The supporters of Prop 8 are on the wrong side of history, a black man is now president, and gays will be married soon enough.  Less than 30% of voters (5 million of the 17 million that voted Tuesday) approved the Proposition, hardly a majority.  There was no Bradley effect, just indifference.  It will come up again and next time it will pass.

A little sad side note:  A majority of black ministers supported Prop 8, I guess they have short memories of 40 years ago.

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